Thursday, August 28, 2014

THE BANE AND BLESSING OF GARDENING


As I sit here typing this, I can look out the window and see a lot of my garden. The dahlias are beautiful, the cosmos almost finished and the tomatoes are ripening. If I could sit in my swing and type this, I could hear the sound of the water trickling into my little pond…so relaxing. But, this is also the time of year when I am more than ready to be done gardening. The only problem is that there’s at least a couple more months before frost and rain arrive, and I must retreat into the house.
 

Every fall, I make a serious attempt to clean up the flowerbeds, rake up all the leaves, and prepare the garden for winter as well as have it ready to go when spring arrives. Since I am only a fair-weather gardener, I don’t always achieve all the fall tasks I set myself. Last fall, for the first time, my husband was unable to keep after all the leaves from the big red maple. I managed to blow them into the flowerbeds for the winter. Imagine what a mess when I began to clean out those flowerbeds in the spring. I vowed I would hire someone this fall to make sure all those leaves are in the compost pile and not in the flowerbeds. 
 

Throughout winter, I peruse the various seed and bulb catalogs that arrive in the mailbox. I make lists of the various bulbs and plants I would like to have for the garden.  I also peruse the photographs I took of last year’s garden and make lists of what I want to move, divide, yank out, or change in some way. That usually leads to my tossing the wish lists of what I don’t have because by the time I divide,  move and transplant, there won’t be room for anything new.
 

Come spring, I am excited to begin. While working, I would devote entire weekend days (or take time off) to getting the front or back garden in shape and ready to go. This, of course, often led to injury even if nothing worse than a sore back. Now that I’m retired, my mantra is, “You don’t have to do this all in one day.” This seemed to work pretty well this past year, but often I’d find that once I’d finished everything, it was time to start back at the beginning.
 

As spring progresses, I anxiously await those little spears of green that indicate the dahlias wintered over (I know…you’re supposed to dig, separate, store and then replant in the spring…too much work.) or that the cosmos, nasturtiums or sunflowers reseeded. I purchase tomato plants, squash, pumpkin and cucumber starts, plant pots of snow peas, green beans and lettuce. I water, fertilize and watch them all grow and grow and grow.
 

This last spring, I even tried something new…straw bale gardening. I bought a couple of straw bales (one had to be a hay bale because it grew grass like you wouldn’t believe) and placed them in the area of the garden that gets the most sun. I then prepared them as directed with water and fertilizer and inserted a tomato plant, zucchini squash and pumpkin starts in one and Danish and delicata squash and lemon cucumber starts in the other. Amazingly, all these plants have done really well although the pumpkins are already ripe and almost all of the plants (except the tomato) are suffering from powdery mildew. I’ll probably do this again next spring.
 

But, to return to the fact I’m ready to be done now. This happens every year and while others say my garden is beautiful, my eyes find, without even trying, all the areas that I’d like to change or fix. For instance, I want to dig up the entire bed of hostas, divide them severely and replant small divisions all along the back of that flowerbed. Then, I’d like to dig up three dahlia plants of the same kind, separate and replant them in front of the hosta. Well, this isn’t something that can be done right now. Well, it could, but most likely both hosta and dahlia would not survive…maybe in October unless the weather is really horrible.
 

I think my problem with wanting to be done this early is that in the past I’ve paid too much attention to the bane of gardening and not the blessings. Amazing how typing this blog brought me to that realization. So, when complimented, I’m going to accept the compliment with pleasure and not look for what could be better. I’m going to concentrate on all the satisfaction and enjoyment I get from working in the dirt as well as sharing and eating those tomatoes and vegetables. And, just for fun rather than sadly I think I’ll relish imagining what my garden might be like next year as I sit in my swing, listen to the water burble and delight in the beauty that’s now before me.

 

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